WHY WOMEN END UP GETTING A LEMON FOR AN HUSBAND: The different between the winners and the losers, is attitude, knowledge, and the right move at the right time. In a relationship, losers refuses to make their true feelings known, and make their mind up too late. It is important, for the woman to make her true feelings known to the man. And a wise woman will not wait too long to do it. Smart men do not want to appeared to desperate. And a woman who wait too long to make the man know where he stand with her, causes the man to think that she is not interested in him. When I was going to Bible collage, I proposed to a girl. For three years she been saying "No" And laugh at me. Finally, I meet the girl I now married to and propose to her, she accept. We got married. The day when I was getting married, the girl that I been knocking at her door for three years. Begin to rolled on the floor and bawl saying her heart has been broken. I DECIDE TO WRITE A FEW ARTICLES TELLING WOMEN HOW MEN THINK: turtle. A Man who is practical, will take no for an answer, he is scared of getting a sexual harassment charge to his record. He has shame, and know how to be ashamed, If your voice say "No" and you mean "Yes" you body language must say"Yes" If you voice say " No" To a man and you body language and facial expression say "No" He will believe that you are driving him away, and just go away. For example, girl number on is saying "No" But at the same time she is tickling me. Or she might say"Yes, no, yes no" Or "yes, no yes" Remember, in courtship, body language, and facial expressions carry more weight than words. PERSISTENCY: A man who is persistence, when he keep getting "No" from a woman. This man has something to prove. This is not a sign of love. Flowers giving is not a sign of love. FEEDBACK IS IMPORTANT IN STARTING A RELATIONSHIP: If a man sent you a post card, let him know that you get it and love it. If he sent you an e-mail. Email him back. No reply to a practical man= not interested. Always reply if you want the man. For example, I take a chance an gave a gift to a woman, I had an idea that she might like me, accordingly to how she act. It is holiday, I went and ask her if she would accept a gift? She say " yes" I return with the gift, I did not wait for it to be open. I do not know if my gift is seeing as an insult, a bribe. That alone can drive a man away. If he do not give a gift he look mean, if he give it, it might look like bribe. You have to make him know how you feel. UNWANTED APPROACHES: Sometime the people we reject turn out to be our best allies. Deal with it intelligently. I am honored by your approaches, but I am already taking. If I need somebody I will make you know. Deal with it intelligently first, before you charge him with sexual harassment. A woman who have an habit of Slapping men can causes every man who know about it to scared away from a woman. Proverbs 20:18-AV [Every] purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war. Proverbs 24:6-AV For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors [there is] safety. Proverbs 14:1-AV Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. http://fatwomen.20megsfree.com/pickmelon.html