HOW TO PREVENT YOURSELF FROM BEING DUMPED OFF AT A NURSING HOME BY YOUR CHILDREN: As I travel from Nursing homes to Hospitals each months. I came across people who had been put there by their children, and never came back, to know if their parents is dead or alive. I came across one crying patient. I asked her" Why do you weep"? She answered and said" Because I have nobody" One nurse said" That is not true, she have children and grand children, but they never came to look for her. I found out that a parent can worked all their life taking care of a children, who when came of age, hated the parents for no apparent reasons. They were never abuse, nor left for others to abuse them, and they still turn out despising the parents. KNOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE: My mother told me, that from I was growing, she know that I would be the one to take care of her. You have to know your children. A biological child is not necessarily you spiritual child. It is not your biological children that will necessarily take care of you in old age. Some time it is your spiritual child. ADAPTING A SPIRIT FAMILY: The Indians believe that every person had another family. This they call a spirit family. This is somebody you meet, and the person adapted you as their own, and would do any thing for you. My grand mother was working as cook for the men who was building a highway in Jamaica. A little boy turn up to help her, one day she asked him where are his parents, he told her that they were dead, and he was alone. She asked him if she would like her to be his mother! He quickly accept. She sent him to school, and raised him up with her other children. That young man turn out to be the one to take care of my grand mother in her later years and us grand children. If relationship between you and your immediate children is not going good. You saw that they choose their favorite parent from among the two, and are constantly griping, go find yourself a spirit family. In plane language, adopt some unfortunate children. In fact every body need to have this as a back up. A friend of mine just died, weeks age, some of his children did not even turn up at his cremations. KNOWING TWO FACES RELATIVE: This is easy, if you are a person that are not distracted. You have to watch little things. One of my best friend is the most paranoid person I have ever came across. I told it to him, his reply was." Sometime it save my skin" Micah 7:5-AV Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom. Micah 7:6-AV For the son dishonoureth the father, the daughter riseth up against her mother, the daughter in law against her mother in law; a man's enemies [are] the men of his own house. Isaiah 26:4-AV Trust ye in the LORD for ever: for in the LORD JEHOVAH [is] everlasting strength: http://www.rtms.netfirms.com/brokenheart.html