JUST TWO THINGS: All I look for in a relationship of any kind is just two things. I look for the two main important things that I need, if the person can fulfill those needs, I turn a blind eye to all the other person faults. For example. On my job all I look for in my coworkers are. Does he /she turns up to do the shift that they sign up for? Because; if that person do not turn up. I will have to do their part of work for the same money. One night I have to take care of my patients, plus the patient of another health care workers who did not show up. I can live with a Muslim, if he she is willing to live and let live. Even if my coworkers are lazy and sloppy, the main important thing is that they show up. If they willing to show up, I can pick up after them. If I share room with a person, the main important thing is that they pay their part of the bills when it came time for payment to be made. If they are willing to do that, their sloppiness I can over look. What is the main important thing to you? For some people it is sex, for some it is just somebody to talk to. Is this person a conversationalist? And if yes! What do they talk about? My friend #1 talk a lot but only about other people business. That is not my thing. Remember, in a relationship it is Availability, sensibility, sex ability and financially able. Amos 3:3-AV Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Genesis 2:18-AV And the LORD God said, [It is] not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Genesis 2:24-AV Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Matthew 19:5-AV And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? Ephesians 5:31-AV For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. For the full article go to this link. http://www.rtms.netfirms.com/whatmen.html